Courage, Connection & Being Human

https://www.meetup.com/mental-health-utrecht/events/311875242/

Charl Fasching

11/15/20252 min read

“The Man in the Arena” — Theodore Roosevelt (1910)

“It is not the critic who counts; not the one who points out how the strong person stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.
The credit belongs to the person who is actually in the arena,
whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood;
who strives valiantly;
who errs, who comes short again and again,
because there is no effort without error and shortcoming;
but who does actually strive to do the deeds;
who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions;
who spends themselves in a worthy cause;
who at the best knows, in the end, the triumph of high achievement,
and who at the worst, if they fail, at least fails while daring greatly.”

Brené Brown studies how people deal with emotions like fear, shame, and uncertainty, and what actually helps us live with more confidence and connection. Her core idea is simple: vulnerability is not weakness — it’s the practical, everyday courage of being honest about what we feel, what we need, and what matters to us. When we avoid vulnerability, we usually end up more isolated, defensive, and stressed. When we handle it well, we build trust, resilience, and real relationships.

Her work focuses on understanding the stories we tell ourselves, learning the difference between shame and guilt, setting clear boundaries, and developing emotional skills that let us show up more fully in life. Today isn’t about therapy or deep confession — it’s about exploring these ideas together, learning useful tools, and having a grounded conversation about being human. You can share as little or as much as you like; listening quietly is also participation.

Event Description


Let’s gather for an open conversation inspired by Brené Brown’s work on vulnerability, courage, belonging, and living wholeheartedly.

This is a relaxed, supportive space — no previous knowledge required and no pressure to share more than you want. We’ll explore themes like:

  • Being brave enough to be seen

  • Shame vs. guilt (and why the difference matters)

  • Setting boundaries without losing kindness

  • Finding belonging instead of just fitting in

  • Rewriting the stories we tell ourselves

Expect guided prompts, gentle structure, and room for honest connection and reflection. This is not therapy — just humans learning and growing together.

For those who think these topics feel a bit intimidating, don't stress — it is exactly to work on the perspective that we are good enough to participate.

Possible Benefits

  • Learn practical tools for courage + boundaries

  • Build confidence in expressing emotions

  • Reduce self-judgment + perfection pressure

  • Connect meaningfully in a supportive circle

Who’s this for?
Anyone curious about personal growth, emotional resilience, and meaningful connection. First-timers are totally welcome.

Tone:
Warm. Brave. Judgement-free. Confidential space.
Share if you want, only listen if you like.

What to bring:

  • An open mind

  • Optional journal

  • Love for Tea or coffee (water is also loved)

"Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen." — Brené Brown

Join our journey

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